The tech industry has seen a rise in the number of women joining its ranks over the past few decades. As someone who has been a woman in tech for around 30 years, I have witnessed the challenges and opportunities that come with being part of this community. In this talk, we will explore the lessons that we have learned as a community and share strategies for handling common situations. We will delve into the crucial role of mentors and discuss tips for allies who want to support women in tech. This talk will offer concrete examples to inspire and empower those who are just starting out in the field, as well as those who are looking to make a meaningful impact.