In its first three years, the mailing list css-discuss has generated nearly 60,000 messages (over 50 per day) and acquired over 5,500 subscribers. Despite this, its signal-to-noise ratio remains high and it is regarded as a very helpful and worthwhile community. List Chaperone Eric Meyer shares his experiences and reflects on being a benevolent dictator, outgrowing a home, augmenting the list with other resources, community direction, and warding off trolls, flames, and holy wars without trampling on everyone in sight.